Discuss your opinions of different ones, just from what you have heard. You don't have to mention what you've tried or have if you don't want to. ;)

Of course I've seen alot of the general ones(and have tried one of them a few times) like love dolls and vibrators.

Actually got the idea from this thread:

http://www.chiyochan.net/azu/res/114820.html

(Which is from a worksafe image board)

I have actually tried blow up dolls before, but felt weirded out by using them, so I've never kept them.

I have tried them more than once, to see if I would change my mind. But I came to the conclusion that they're not for me.

That link you left comes up as a 404 now.

I've tried quite a few, but usually it's just the missus and I sans toys.

Ant


The thread is gone then. It was from a worksafe iichan board, where they had a link about a type of love doll.(It was a news story or something like that)

Yeah, I think the last time I tried one was in 2005 or 2006, after that I thought "eh.. not for me".

A sybian that can be wired to a 480V 3 phase power?

Talk about la petite death! :D

I'm curious as to what makes people buy the toys they do. I mean, how does one seriously decide "yeah, I'll go with the pink 18" long, 2" thick double-headed dildo", "No, not the lightweight nipple clamps, the Bear Trap ones with 12oz weights" or "I'll take the sybian that can be wired to 480V 3 phase power".



So far it has always been someone elses choice as to what vibrator they've bought for me.  I prefer the more natural looking ones for some reason  :-\

My boyfriend (now husband) bought some love ball things for me one year.  We'd read about them somewhere.  Never used them and have no idea where they are now.  I hope they are not in a drawer in my bedroom at my parents house  :-[

I've never had one,my sister in-law swears by them. My husband would think his manhood would be threatened,if I wanted to go out and buy one.

I've never had one,my sister in-law swears by them. My husband would think his manhood would be threatened,if I wanted to go out and buy one.



Kind of sad. I'm glad Carlos isn't like that.  ;)



Cat

Kind of sad. I'm glad Carlos isn't like that.  ;)



Cat

Yah,but we've gone 18 years with out using any "devices" and he recently had some issues,because all of the sudden after 18 years of marriage he realized I dated 2 guys before him.

Welcome to NP, ninny!

Ant

Thanks!

I've never had one,my sister in-law swears by them. My husband would think his manhood would be threatened,if I wanted to go out and buy one.


That's pretty silly. If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't feel threatened by it... that would be hypocritical... especially with all the porn images I save.

It's better to have a partner that masturbates than one that cheats on you with another person.

I've never had one,my sister in-law swears by them. My husband would think his manhood would be threatened,if I wanted to go out and buy one.


It is often my husband who suggests we get the vibrator out.  I mean I'd rather just go to sleep, but if he insists ::)  ;D

It is often my husband who suggests we get the vibrator out.  I mean I'd rather just go to sleep, but if he insists ::)  ;D

I'm not really sure if he thinks it's a threat against his manhood or he just doesn't like the idea of it,I know when I mentioned that his sister had one,he got mad and said why would someone who is married need something like that. (His sister said her husband at the time was very receptive of it)

I'm not really sure if he thinks it's a threat against his manhood or he just doesn't like the idea of it,I know when I mentioned that his sister had one,he got mad and said why would someone who is married need something like that. (His sister said her husband at the time was very receptive of it)



It really isn't an either/or type thing. Sometimes Carlos & I use toys & devices and sometimes we don't. And it is not a matter of NEED-but it does add a sense of variety so sex doesn't become the same old/same old and grow boring and tiresome. 


Cat

It really isn't an either/or type thing. Sometimes Carlos & I use toys & devices and sometimes we don't. And it is not a matter of NEED-but it does add a sense of variety so sex doesn't become the same old/same old and grow boring and tiresome. 


Cat

Well my husband has mentioned that we need variety..maybe I should mention this again.

Well my husband has mentioned that we need variety..maybe I should mention this again.



It can't hurt to talk to him about it. But, if he does say ok to trying it, be warned, you may create a monster.  ;)



Cat

let's see:

I've used...

nipple clamps, anal beads, anal plug, dildo, double ended dildo, he used a cockring, body paints, handcuffs, whips,....hmmm..I *think* that's it. ;D

I bought this awesome 7" silver vibrator when I was in California last May.  I love the hell out of it.  And it's so pretty, too! ;D

I bought this awesome 7" silver vibrator when I was in California last May.  I love the hell out of it.  And it's so pretty, too! ;D


Shiny shiny na na na na!  :D

Me partner uses her vibe and a dildo regularly.  Probably right now while I'm in here :D

Shiny shiny na na na na!  :D

Me partner uses her vibe and a dildo regularly.  Probably right now while I'm in here :D


My shiny silver toy broke.  Is sad now.... :'(

I no longer use sex toys thanks to a severely decreased libido, but I used one of those little baseball bats that one can buy at the ballpark, greased up with Crisco, since my parents were too dense to buy me a dildo.

I hit the reply button too soon, and "from around the time I entered puberty to after I moved out on my own" should follow "dildo".

About the decreased libido, Dark Ant: It has to do with a lot of things, including the fact that I have lost interest in sex and being around men (in person, not online) after having been beaten up and robbed by three men at the county fair a couple of years ago. I am also on medication that has side effects of decreasing the sex drive.

I'm sorry to hear that. Medications can and often do have a negative impact on sex drive.

The county un-fair: did you ever get any justice out of that incident?

I've activated your account now if you wish to use it.

Ant


Dark Ant, I did get justice out of the incident.  (LOL at your description!), and one guy is doing an indefinite stint in the state hospital since he was bipolar, one copped a plea bargain and got his charges dropped to two misdemeanors and a class-C felony, and one is doing 25 years in prison.

Seeing as though I can't send you a personal message, I'll say this, even though it's off-topic: I couldn't get into my account since I forgot which username I used to get in and what password I chose, so please send me an e-mail and make sure I am registered as "MadameA".

My shiny silver toy broke.  Is sad now.... :'(


you didn't ask about a refund?

you didn't ask about a refund?


It's been a year and across the continent, so I don't think they'd refund me.  It was also used....ermmmm....quite vigourously. http://www.nastypenguins.com/forum/smile/04/eek.gif

I remember when going into adult stores, that they have a rule against returns. Sort of a health code sort of thing.

:D

As of recently, I finally found a sex toy that I actually like... a masturbation sleeve.  :D ;D

As of recently, I finally found a sex toy that I actually like... a masturbation sleeve.  :D ;D


I've always wondered if those actually worked.  Do they feel like the real thing?

I wouldn't know... I'm still a virgin.

One thing's for sure though, it feels better than my hand.