Well... Since there's a thred going around about what turns certain people on. I was just wonder what turns all of you off? Apperance-wise and Action-wise...

Arrogance

Fuzzy teeth

Men who wear more make up than I do

...... ther eis more I am sure, just not all coming to me at once

Women who cake on the make-up, their face ain't real anymore.

Bitter attitudes. Arrogance.

Women who talk all the freakin' time without any moment to pause or let me say anything it's just on and on and on about boring stuff I couldn't care less about and chances are I stopped listening ages ago 'cos you ramble on and on without pause repeating yourself over and over without stopping to breath...

And more. But that's what came to mind.

Poor hygiene
Rotten asshole-ish attitude

I'll think of more later.

Having a tongue stuck in my ear, I don't mind kissing and a little licking but a big, ole wet tongue in my ear is nasty.

This includes:

-Cheesy sex talk (Do ya know what I'm doing to ya?)
-Moderate + biting (Nibbles, OK. Bite, yeowch)
-Bruises on me (Sorry, I don't do Klingon sex)
-Cheesy porn (Once saw one w/music done by Haagen-Duz; this became a running gag)

Nipple/labia piercings/jewelry.

Poor hygiene.

Big nasty tattoos on women.

'70s retro.

Having a tongue stuck in my ear, I don't mind kissing and a little licking but a big, ole wet tongue in my ear is nasty.


True for me too!

My computer.  See, if my computer was turned off, then I wouldn't be here :D

Ha! I know exactly what you mean. My friend David and I were watching this porn about 14-15 years ago. It was this smoking hot babe sunning herself on a lawn chair. The young, male neighbor looks over the fence constantly at her. She notices and goes inside, but not before motioning him over.

Next scene (replete with cheesy music) they are inside and touching all over each other. The camera is closer on her now: something about her seems odd, but we can't place it. Next thing she drops her thong and out pops about a 9" dick.

The male actor's next line was fucking priceless: "Uh. Um. Mrrmph (mumbles) Oh well.." as he starts sucking her cock.

We've used "oh well" for over a decade now for any situation that looks different than it appears or when we know we're getting fucked and have to deal with it anyway.

Wish I could remember the movie name.

Back on topic: shemales with bad boob jobs (and bad boob jobs in general) are erection killers.

Unexpectedly watching shemale porn is the adult equivalent to getting Rick-rolled, lol

Ant

What is rick-rolled?
I avoid she-male porn.  If I even suspect it, I'm out of there!

Welcome to the boards, Poisoned Eros!

Don't worry about Rick-rolled for now. I'll show ya later.

Ant

Thank you, Dark Ant.
According to the Urban Dictionary it is getting tricked into clicking link to a Rick Astley video.  If that isn't sadistical, sadism has no meaning!
:D

Drunkenness.




Cat

Ha! I know exactly what you mean. My friend David and I were watching this porn about 14-15 years ago. It was this smoking hot babe sunning herself on a lawn chair. The young, male neighbor looks over the fence constantly at her. She notices and goes inside, but not before motioning him over.

Next scene (replete with cheesy music) they are inside and touching all over each other. The camera is closer on her now: something about her seems odd, but we can't place it. Next thing she drops her thong and out pops about a 9" dick.

The male actor's next line was fucking priceless: "Uh. Um. Mrrmph (mumbles) Oh well.." as he starts sucking her cock.

We've used "oh well" for over a decade now for any situation that looks different than it appears or when we know we're getting fucked and have to deal with it anyway.

Wish I could remember the movie name.

Back on topic: shemales with bad boob jobs (and bad boob jobs in general) are erection killers.

Unexpectedly watching shemale porn is the adult equivalent to getting Rick-rolled, lol

Ant


The question I wanna know .. after you saw she had a dick .. why did you keep watching ?  ;D

I don't think I answered this one
There's only a few things that turn me off

1. Girls that when they speak it sounds like their always asking a question because they make the last few words they say higher than the rest. You know what I'm talking about.

2. Parasite Hilton (See above)

3. A home with garbage all over the place when you come over (I had a friend that in her house you had to climb over a mountain of old pizza boxes and dirty clothing, plus cats and rabbits to actually walk in her home)

4. Boring people. People enjoy sitting at home fooling around with Myspace and reading a book instead of actually hanging out and doing something.

5. People who don't really have an opinion. It's fun to hear people's opinions on certain topics, it's what makes a conversation intresting. If the person just agrees with everything you say it's not exactly that great of a conversation, and you can't really talk to the person. It's more like talking at the person.

6. Shy people. There is no reason to be shy, most people are shy because their afraid of getting into an arguement and loseing the person or whatever, I don't really know why people are shy, but if that's the reason if you're going out with a person your partner should not be shy, because you have to be able to share things with each other and not worry about the consiquences.

6. Shy people. There is no reason to be shy, most people are shy because their afraid of getting into an arguement and loseing the person or whatever, I don't really know why people are shy, but if that's the reason if you're going out with a person your partner should not be shy, because you have to be able to share things with each other and not worry about the consiquences.

I have struggled to overcome shyness.  I can't speak for others, but for me it was conditioning.  I would speak up, I would get smacked down.  That happens enough and you develop a quiet, retiring personality.  Shyness is a form of social anxiety and I don't think it's fair to say there's no reason for it.  It was a survival mechanism for many of us growing up.  What you learn in your formative years is often nearly impossible to shake later on.

6. Shy people. There is no reason to be shy, most people are shy because their afraid of getting into an arguement and loseing the person or whatever, I don't really know why people are shy, but if that's the reason if you're going out with a person your partner should not be shy, because you have to be able to share things with each other and not worry about the consiquences.


That's funny,just from your posts here i would've tag you as a shy guy :-\
You're right though "there's no reason to be shy",shyness isn't about reason at all. I know a lot of shy people who get physically ill just with the prospect of being in the spotlight,their lives would be so much easier if they could just "get over it",it just doesn't work like that

- Chicks with dicks.

"Boring people" & "Shy people" - I'm probably what you'd call both of those. I'm just very introverted and would much rather sit at home watching a good movie than be trolling the streets pissed as fuck hitting on random ladies walking down the street at 4am.  :D

"Girls that when they speak it sounds like their always asking a question" - can't say I've met too many of these. Maybe because I tend to just tune them out, or ignore them if they appear to have an IQ less than the amount of fingers on my right hand.

"A home with garbage all over the place when you come over" - That's just sick. Kinda makes you wonder how people can live in such filth.

"People who don't really have an opinion" - I don't have an opinion on this particular point.

"Parasite Hilton" - And she's not even that hot, IMO.

Oh man, cell phones. I understand the need for them at times but some people go overboard with them. We were at a restaurant one time and there was a family sitting at a table next to us-there must have been at least 10-12 people at the table. At least 2 of them were yammering on the phone. Other calls were coming through throughout the meal. Why bother going out to eat with your family if you are going to talk to your friends and NOT talk to your family?

Yeah, we do have a cell. It is mainly for people to get in touch with us when we are on-line because we have dial-up. The only time it even leaves the house is when we travel. And then it is turned off most of the time. We just check it from time to time to see if anyone has called.

On our last visit to California, Carlos' youngest daughter came back with us. Since I don't drive anymore, the two of them switched off driving. She was driving while Carlos was in the back seat snoozing. She asked me for the cell. I told her no-not while she was driving. She understand and when it was Carlos' turn to drive and she was snoozing in the back seat-THEN I gave her the cell.



Cat

Oh man, cell phones. I understand the need for them at times but some people go overboard with them. We were at a restaurant one time and there was a family sitting at a table next to us-there must have been at least 10-12 people at the table. At least 2 of them were yammering on the phone. Other calls were coming through throughout the meal. Why bother going out to eat with your family if you are going to talk to your friends and NOT talk to your family?

Yeah, we do have a cell. It is mainly for people to get in touch with us when we are on-line because we have dial-up. The only time it even leaves the house is when we travel. And then it is turned off most of the time. We just check it from time to time to see if anyone has called.

On our last visit to California, Carlos' youngest daughter came back with us. Since I don't drive anymore, the two of them switched off driving. She was driving while Carlos was in the back seat snoozing. She asked me for the cell. I told her no-not while she was driving. She understand and when it was Carlos' turn to drive and she was snoozing in the back seat-THEN I gave her the cell.



Cat

Oh, I thought youmeant they turned you off in a sexual kind of way.  I don't have a particular fetish for them, but I can set mine to "vibrate," so I drop it down my trousers, pick up the landline and call myself over and over again!
:P
Then I got caught and, you know, word got around. 
"Hey, can I borrow your phone...oh, never mind, I'll, uh, send a smoke signal instead!"

I have struggled to overcome shyness.  I can't speak for others, but for me it was conditioning.  I would speak up, I would get smacked down.  That happens enough and you develop a quiet, retiring personality.  Shyness is a form of social anxiety and I don't think it's fair to say there's no reason for it.  It was a survival mechanism for many of us growing up.  What you learn in your formative years is often nearly impossible to shake later on.


You wouldn't know it from what I type on here and other places, but I'm really shy in person and rarely speak up for myself. It has a lot to do with what you typed. I never learned to be at ease with people because of the way I was treated. So now I can only be uber bitch and really silly online. In real life, I'm only like that if I'm drunk or I know you really well or you're family. :P

Pushy men
poor hygiene
ramming tongues down my throat.
Screwing like a rabbit without any thought to what i want.
sloppy kisses
jealousy

groping

Going in with the finger before we've even kissed

Women who think they don't have to be decent human beings because they're "hot" and the guys who reinforce their brattiness by drooling over them and trying to pick them up.
::)

That's funny,just from your posts here i would've tag you as a shy guy :-\
You're right though "there's no reason to be shy",shyness isn't about reason at all. I know a lot of shy people who get physically ill just with the prospect of being in the spotlight,their lives would be so much easier if they could just "get over it",it just doesn't work like that


Actually there is some reason for it... Some of us just aren't going to be easily comfortable in crowds... I never fit in growing up and it's left some scars in my personality... Funny thing is, I can be quite outgoing... it just depends on the crowd.(usually having alot in common)



My list of turn offs:

1. Women who smoke, do drugs... Sorry but even if the girl has an interest in me, I will not go out with her if she smokes or does drugs. Occasional drinking is fine, but not excessive stupid drunkiness.

2. Pushy women, same reason as for women hating pushy men.

3. People who think they need to convert you to their way of thinking. I am pretty defiant, so I don't take it well when others always think they're way is the right way.


I think that's it for me...

I have struggled to overcome shyness.  I can't speak for others, but for me it was conditioning.  I would speak up, I would get smacked down.  That happens enough and you develop a quiet, retiring personality.  Shyness is a form of social anxiety and I don't think it's fair to say there's no reason for it.  It was a survival mechanism for many of us growing up.  What you learn in your formative years is often nearly impossible to shake later on.


I agree with you on this one.

I have struggled to overcome shyness.  I can't speak for others, but for me it was conditioning.  I would speak up, I would get smacked down.  That happens enough and you develop a quiet, retiring personality.  Shyness is a form of social anxiety and I don't think it's fair to say there's no reason for it.  It was a survival mechanism for many of us growing up.  What you learn in your formative years is often nearly impossible to shake later on.

I've always been shy,It's much easier to write things than to say things (especially sexual) to someone face to face..I also have loe self-esteem so that doesn't help overcome my shyness.

What I'm turned off by:

1: Excessive body hair on men. As I said in another thread, I won't fuck someone who looks like Sasquatch. No way, no how, unless I get at least a million dollars for it.  ;)

2: Anyone who emulates (poorly or otherwise) the dress or bad habits of rappers or extreme-sports stars of any kind. I don't want to be within sight and/or earshot of someone who wants to be Eminem or Tony Hawk, since I have personally witnessed them committing crimes of vandalism, theft and assault upon anyone different than them, such as an elderly or disabled person, or someone with conventional or at least tolerable taste in clothing and habits.

3: Anyone with fundamentalist religious and/or political stances. I am more than likely to tell someone like that to shut the fuck up and take their radical shit elsewhere than to listen and play along with their "game".

4: Immaturity. Dudes who act like little kids or teenagers aren't my cup of tea, and immaturity is a major pet peeve of mine.

5: Anyone who wants to take advantage of people for any reason other than bondage/S&M types of stuff (I just got into that recently.) If you do, then stay the fuck away from me if you want to form a relationship with me.

6: Men with redhead and/or "BBW" fetishes. If you're interested in me primarily for a certain aspect of my appearance, then I'm not interested in you at all.

7: Sex offenders, "rehabilitated" or not. I just can't trust them, and I would like to see them all castrated and jailed for life.

MadameA's Top 7 Turnoffs:

1: Excessive body hair on men. As I said in another thread, I won't fuck someone who looks like Sasquatch. No way, no how, unless I get at least a million dollars for it.  ;)


I'm trying to figure out what level I am body hair wise.(Your post made me think about that for some reason... I don't know why)